

The Mentoring Tree
A Leadership Parable
By Leighton Ford
A
veteran missionary once described "banyan tree leadership.” Too many leaders,
he said, are like the spreading Indian banyan tree, so thick it does not let
the sun through to nourish the seedlings underneath. Senior leaders can take up
so much space and oxygen they don’t allow others to flourish. In contrast the aspen
tree has roots that grow underground and up. This Aspen parable reminds me (and
I hope others) of the importance of mentoring the next generation. We make a
difference not so much by multiplying programs as by investing in people.
-Leighton Ford
It did not make the headlines, but
not long ago there was a very important convention that met at a beach hotel in
California.
It was a convention of leading trees,
most of them old, some hundreds of years old, who had met to discuss the future
of trees. They were very concerned that the world was running out of trees, and
wanted to see what they could do about it.
But they also gathered because leaders
like to meet other leaders. So the conference gave them the chance to get
together with some very fine old trees from all over the world, enjoy tree
talk, and just have a good time relaxing by the beach.
One afternoon two of these veteran tree
leaders took a walk together on the beach.
One was Banyan, a
very large spreading tree from Florida.
The other was Aspen, a slender tree
with white bark and yellow leaves, who came from the slopes of Colorado.
Because they came from different parts
of the country they were very curious about one another. So they decided to
take a walk.
The banyan tree was very old, and bent
over with the weight of his huge spreading branches. He walked with the aid of
a handsome carved wood cane engraved with intricate designs like tree branches.
"Where did you get the cane?” asked Aspen. "It
looks very fine.”
Banyan shook it proudly. "Very fine
indeed,” he said. "It belonged to my grandfather. It’s made from one of the
finest old trees, which donated a branch to a woodcarver who gave it to my
grandfather in India.”
"Aren’t there many banyans in India?”
asked Aspen. "And India is a very religious country isn’t it?”
"Very religious,” nodded Banyan. "In
fact over there some people worship banyans as gods. Not that we are, of
course. I know better. I may live a few hundred more years but not forever.”
A fleeting look of sadness came over
his face.
They walked a few
more paces, dragging their roots in the water as children would, as if they
were young trees again.
"Do you think about getting old?” asked
Aspen thoughtfully. "Do you think of what you have done for the world? And what
you will leave behind?”
"I do,” said Banyan, "When I was a
young tree I had so many dreams of what I wanted to do. Many have come true.
Florida is a hot place and I have given cool shade in the heat of the day to
many weary people. I have done what God made me to do and that makes me very
happy. But something worries me.”
He paused.
"And what is that?” asked Aspen.
"Who will replace me, and you?” said
the banyan. "This conference has made me very worried. The trees of the world
are dying out in many places.”
Aspen nodded and his leaves shook.
"I wonder the same. In the hills of
Colorado we don’t hear a lot of news from other parts of the world. I hadn’t
heard how many trees are dying. Why, the other day the speaker said that a
portion of forest the size of a football field is lost every minute of every
day! Did you know that?”
"I knew it was bad,” said Banyan
darkly, "but not that bad. Deforestation, is that the word?”
"Yes,” said Aspen.
"After that session I saw some of our brothers and sisters from Africa and
Latin America who looked devastated. They said all their tropical forests would
be gone in the next five years unless something is done.”
"My friend from Sri Lanka said the same
thing,” said Banyan. "More and more people are being born. So many trees are
being cut down to make rooms for farms to feed more people. And then we need
more and more houses, so more trees are cut down. Then more firewood is needed
to cook. On and on and on it goes.”
"Yes,” added Aspen, "and when trees go
there’s not as much water drawn from the ground and it gets very dry. There are
deserts where there used to be forests.”
"It does worry me,” said Banyan, and
with heads bowed they walked on, silent.
Then Aspen turned and looked Banyan up
and down.
"You are a very
big tree,” he said. "Are you also very old?”
"Over a hundred years,” Banyan answered
proudly. "And over a hundred feet tall.”
"Really?” exclaimed Aspen. "Do many
banyan trees grow that old and that tall?”
"Many grow to be hundreds of years
old,” answered the banyan. "And very tall. But mostly” (and here his trunk shook
with laughter) "mostly we grow very large around! We look like jolly fat men!
Did you know the biggest banyan tree in the world is in India? It’s the Great
Banyan in the botanical gardens near Calcutta. They tell me Great Banyan
measures over three hundred meters around.”
"That’s one big tree!” gasped the
astonished aspen. "Nearly a thousand feet.”
"Yes,” said Banyan. "And when I was in
school my history teacher said that when Alexander the Great came to India he
camped under a banyan tree big enough to shelter all seven thousand of his
soldiers.”
"How old is the Great Banyan?” asked
Aspen.
"Perhaps two hundred years” Banyan
answered. "Some banyans may live over a thousand years.”
"Amazing!” Aspen exclaimed. "And do
they spread?”
"We do,” said
Banyan. "We grow up and spread out. And we also look very strange because our
roots start above the ground. They grow down from our branches into the ground
and hold up other spreading branches. I guess they are tree canes,” he
chuckled, waving his own carved cane.
"Have you ever seen a big banyan?” he
asked his companion.
Aspen shook his head.
"Well a single banyan tree can look
like a forest. That Great Banyan near Calcutta may have what looks like a
thousand trunks growing down.”
They walked on, Banyan with his cane,
Aspen thinking of what he had just learned.
"But I am being very impolite,” Banyan
said at last, "talking so much about myself. What about aspens?” Banyan asked.
"Are there many aspens in your part of the world?”
Aspen smiled. "A few. In fact we aspens
are the mostly widely growing tree in North America, all across the continent.
There are many of us where I come from, in the mountains of Colorado.”
"It must be a very beautiful place,”
said Banyan, "because you are a very beautiful tree. So slender, and such a
lovely light trunk and yellow leaves; I wish I was as slender as you.”
He laughed again, ruefully, shaking his
many long branches. "I guess I would look better if I trimmed down a bit.”
"And do aspens live a long time?” he
wondered.
"Not as long as you,” said Aspen.
"Maybe a hundred and twenty years. But we do have a claim to fame.”
"And what is that?” asked Banyan,
curiously.
"Do you know where the largest living
organism in the world is?” asked Aspen.
"Texas?” Banyan
asked, "Isn’t that where everything is the biggest?”
"No, not Texas,
Oregon. And do you know what that organism is?”
"An aspen? How could that be?”
"No, a fungus. A huge fungus. But the
second largest living thing is an aspen … a ‘quaking aspen’ grove in the
Wasatch Mountains in Utah. It’s said to weigh over six thousand tons!”
"My word” breathed Banyan. "How did it
get that big?”
"Well, you have to understand aspens,”
his friend explained.
"Have you ever seen an aspen grove? At
first it looks like any other grove, a bunch of the same kind of tree. But it’s
not! An aspen grove is actually one tree connected by its roots, and the roots
are out of sight under the soil. An aspen tree spreads out its roots and grows
many trunks. Those who count these things say that one grove, one they call
‘Pando’, probably has forty one thousand stems off one root stock. It’s really
one tree with many branches.”
"Well!” Banyan was speechless for a
while. They walked on a few steps.
"But how long did it take to grow that
way?”
"Perhaps ten thousand years,” said
Aspen.
"Ten thousand years … but I thought you
said aspens live only a hundred years or so?”
"True. For the original tree,” said
Aspen. "But long after that first visible trunk is gone, the roots under the
soil are there, waiting, patient, until some disturbance comes and the sun
stimulates another growth cycle and the tree pioneers on into new territory.”
"Truly amazing.” Banyan shook his head
again. "I am glad to learn all this.”
"There’s something else I’m happy for,”
said Aspen. "We trees don’t live just for ourselves, do we? We provide shade
for young spruce and pine trees, and shelter them. We shed our leaves and let
the sunlight filter through so they can grow too.”
Then he asked Banyan, "But tell me more
about why you are so concerned about the future of your tree family. With so
many big trees, that live so many hundreds of years, banyan trees shouldn’t
have any trouble being around for many centuries to come. Why are you worried?”
Banyan did not reply for a moment. He
walked a few paces, and kicked one of his roots in the sand. Then he looked up.
"We do have a problem,” he admitted.
"In India there is a proverb: Nothing grows under the banyan tree.”
"It’s sad, but true. A banyan tree,
especially a very big one, is so huge, and its foliage is so thick, it does not
let the light through. It does not allow the little seedlings to grow.
"That’s what makes me worry. I am still
living. So are many other banyans. But what about the next generation? And the
next? Who will provide shade for them?”
Then he turned and looked right into
Aspen’s eyes.
"Do you know what else concerns me?”
"What?”
"It’s about the
human leaders in our country. Too many of our big important leaders are like a
big banyan tree. They take up so much space; demand so much attention. Even
when they walk into a room they take up lots of space and suck up the air. And
I don’t see them letting light through to nurture the younger ones coming
along.
"Our world has many other problems
besides our tree problems. We need leaders who can see beyond themselves and
their own interests. And where are those leaders coming from?”
He fell silent. Even his great branches
seemed to bow low before these grave questions.
Aspen too was quiet. Then he slowly
voiced his own reflections.
"You are a very wise old tree, Banyan.
What you say about our country is true. We do have lots of leaders that take up
all the attention. We do need to allow new leaders to grow and take us into the
years ahead.
"We have something to learn from your
wisdom. This walk on the beach has been more important to me than all the
statistics we missed hearing at the afternoon session.”
"Agreed” said
Banyan. "And I think I have something to learn from you. That leaders may be
visible and grow tall and spread widely, but unless they are growing a whole
network under the surface, how will their influence last?”
It was getting late.
Banyan and Aspen watched the red ball
of the sun moving down toward the far edge of the sea. At the horizon it seemed
to duck its head and pull the sea over its brow, like a child snuggling under
the covers for the night. For a few moments it let out winks of light that
striped the edges of the evening clouds. And without a further nod it faded
into the folds of the night.
The two old trees turned and headed
back to the hotel, thinking about days past, and about children all around the
world going to sleep, and dreaming of years yet to come.
(Reprinted by permission of Leighton Ford Ministries,
Charlotte, N.C. ©2006. Originally Printed by Lightning Source, Inc.) The
Mentoring Tree is available for download at leightonfordministries.org
Leighton Ford, president of Leighton
Ford Ministries (LFM), is an author, leader, communicator, poet, painter and
mentor. His books include Transforming Leadership (IVP, 1993) and The
Attentive Life (IVP, 2008). His recent booklet The Mentoring Community
(2011) can be downloaded at the LFM website (leightonfordministries.org). After
30 years of international evangelism, both with his brother-in-law Billy Graham
and his own campaigns, Ford sensed a call to mentor emerging leaders. Leighton
Ford Ministries was formed in 1986 for that purpose.